my wedding photographer

Just now I went to discuss with the makeup artist and photographer about the mood I want for my wedding photo shoot. The makeup artist is a very nice gal, as for the photographer, I don't like his attitude. I brought some photo shoot printout and told him what i prefer (like the angle and feel of the photo). His face started to change black like I am asking too much and said I should not copy other people pose as we should pose in our own natural way. I also want to be natural but the problem is we are not model, all the poses we know will be sitting, smiling and standing. I don't want to end up having all the same poses in my photo album. And in the first place I didn't insist that I want to follow the same pose as in the printout. I only want to capture is the idea and mood. He as a photographer should advise how we should pose with the props I am bringing rather than say I am following other people footstep. Maybe all good photographer have lousy attitude, as they use their photo to communicate with others rather than their mouth. Hopefully his works can really satisfy me or else I will also let him see my charcoal face.